it would also be nice if he:

• other people say he is a "good guy", but he wouldn't say that about himself
• has a good relationship with his family (add 5 points if parents are still married)
• is darker than me, and weighs more than me, but not more than twice my weight
• doesn't ever look like he needs a haircut really bad
• can pick me up, beat me in arm wrestling, and burp louder than me
• flosses and goes to the dentist regularly
• has a sister
• snowboards
• i don't like uber hairy guys
• has more than two pairs of jeans (with no holes in them) and shoes
• drives well (in my opinion, not just his)
• has a tivo (or at least knows what one is)
  
• has read snow crash and agrees that it's da bomb
  

• has a subscription to a magazine that he reads (preferred: wired, maxim, gq). take off 5 points for playboy.
     

• spends >= 5 hours of every day online, including work
• i'm really picky about food. i don't like mustard, onions, cilantro, and a bunch of other things. he doesn't complain when i start getting on the waiter's nerves. even better, he kicks the guy's butt.
• drinks only socially (ie, doesn't drink at home alone for fun)
• i also don't like bugs, so bug squashers are good.
• can fluently speak at least one other language besides english
• likes to eat -- eats my extra food when i can't finish
• isn't one of those guys that stares girls down as they walk by
• doesn't mind taking out the trash
• makes his bed
• smelly anything is NASTY (i'm thinking mouth, but if anything else stinks, like feet or something, that's NOT cool).
• cuts his finger/toenails regularly (long or dirty nails are icky). no biters.
• resourcefulness (where there's a will, there's a way), but doesn't have a hard time asking for help (especially from me).
• has a car and his own bedroom (and preferrably bathroom)
• likes to go out to nice restaurants, but also knows how to appreciate a mcdonalds mcrib... mmm. :)
  
• clothing: wears a hat sometimes, owns something from abercrombie and banana republic, has a pair of kenneth cole shoes
• is a leader, but is not afraid to joke about himself or make himself look silly
• was possibly in a fraternity (the co-ed variety doesn't count)
• knows when to say what's on his mind and when to keep it to himself
• is good at the expert minesweeper (under 180)
• and the hardest part... can beat me at air hockey.

• calvin klein sheets
• sweet home theatre setup
• nice watch
• sweet computer setup
• smells good
• has nice handwriting
• adept in emacs and/or vi